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THE ART OF THE DEAL: How to Negotiate a BDSM Scene, a workshop presented by Sir Guy
The Leather Man
New York, NY
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   LEVEL: Appropriate for all experience levels
              (Curious to Seasoned)



It seems so simple.  Two (or more) people look at each other and feel a certain connection that moves them to want to do a scene together.  The air is electric and there is certain magnetism.  The last thing you want to do is destroy the mood by entering into a lengthy process that feels more like litigation than the makings of a hot time.  How do you ensure everyone's safety, protect each other while laying the foundation for a great scene?  Sir Guy shows you how to cover the essentials in a way that is both thorough and fun and lays the groundwork for future good times.

This workshop is presented in a supportive setting where you can easily see and hear the presentation and feel comfortable asking questions or participating in discussions.  Only 20 seats are made available, so get your ticket(s) quickly.

   ***Don't miss this opportunity to learn from a fascinating, highly respected and experienced BDSM educator, Sir Guy, with the help of his very lovely assistant.***

General Admission tickets are only $10 each. Ticket holders receive a $10 Leather Man Gift Card, which can be used any time for any in-store purchase.

Free refreshments are provided in a stimulating environment filled with erotic toys and fetish gear. Come early to browse and claim your seat(s).

You must be over 18 years old to attend this workshop or shop with us.

For everyone's comfort and privacy, cameras, mobile phones, tablets, laptops, and other devices capable of recording video, sound or pictures are not allowed.

The Leather Man will close to the public at 8:00 PM to host this fun and informative fetish event, but will remain open for participants until 11:00 PM to give you plenty of time to socialize, shop or start practicing!

*** PLEASE NOTE *** Admission to the workshop will not be possible once it begins so plan to arrive ahead of time.  

We look forward to seeing you!


About Sir Guy

Sir Guy lives a Dominant lifestyle, publicly active in the BDSM scene for almost a decade.  He is an Emeritus Member of the Board of Directors of The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), its media representative and Chair of their Socials Activities and Community Relations Committees.  He is a former Director of East Coast Leather Town Hall and New York Leather Weekend. He is the facilitator for MAsT Metro New York and an Associate Member of ONYX NY/Northeast. He is the holder of the International Power Exchange 2013 title with Karida. He is also the producer of the New York Metro Power Exchange contest and Director of The Dark Lair BDSM Education and Support for People of Color.  He is also a member of Feel Me Breathe.  

He has presented at TES, Beyond Leather 2, 3, 4 & 6 and was the Keynote Speaker at Beyond Leather 7, Black B.E.A.T. 2009 Survivor Saturday, Black B.E.A.T. 2014, Black Rose 2006, BOLD 2014, Brimstone II and III and IV, Bucks County Power Exchange, Conversio Virium (Columbia University's BDSM group), Dom Sub Friends, Dr. Charley Ferrer's BDSM Writers Con, Feel Me Breathe, Fem Domme Circle (Hartford, CT), GMSMA, Leather Leadership Conference 2014, L.I.F.E. in Nassau, Long Island Leather and Roses, Knot for Everyone (KFE), TES Fest 2009, Niagara Fetish Friends, MAsT Jersey City, ONYX New York/New England, ONYX Blackout 2012, The Society, The Floating World 1, 2 and 4, and Transcending Boundaries Conference 2014.  

Sir Guy is the winner of the TES 2005 Dominant Men/submissive women's Literary Contest and is the author of a uniform themed BDSM erotic collection featuring people of color entitled "Sharp Interrogations: Erotic Tales of Uniform Discipline."  He is an instructor at Kink Academy and has participated in an educational forum at Rutgers University as a panelist discussing Human Sexuality.  He has been interviewed by the New York Times, Huffington Post, Esquire magazine, Relapse magazine, New York Metro newspaper, Power Equality Radio WWRL 1600 AM, The Diana Montford Show and others.

In addition to being a uniform enthusiast, he is a former New York City police officer and New York State certified Emergency Medical Technician, who has participated in rescue efforts at Ground Zero and at Hurricane Katrina, as well as being an ordained minister.
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111 Christopher Street
New York, NY 10014
United States


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Minimum Age: 18
Kid Friendly: No
Dog Friendly: No
Non-Smoking: Yes!
Wheelchair Accessible: No


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